Store My Library
About Contact

BECOMING LOVE 

The 90-minute masterclass for the woman who is tired of burning herself out trying to "manifest" a partner who fully chooses her... and ready to call in the type of love that feels like an exhale in her body

BECOMING LOVE - MASTERCLASS REPLAY

Hosted by Lorena Schuth - Creator of Recreate Your SelfŽ

To receive the event access and information you will be subscribed to our mailing list. We won't spam and you can unsubscribe at anytime.

You've read the books on attachment theory. You've scripted about the type of relationship that makes you feel safe to finally be yourself without fear that they’ll leave. You’ve repeated your affirmations, trying to believe he’s on his way.

And your Pinterest vision board is full of imagery that is yet to come true.

But you still find yourself lying awake at 11pm wondering if love is actually coming for you. You catch yourself looking at your ex’s following list on Instagram — and the moment you’re into someone you watch more than one pick-a-card reading on YouTube.

Despite the incredible life you’ve created you still notice you haven’t found the person to share it with — the man who doesn’t hesitate to choose you, claim you, and make you feel fully wanted for all of who you are.

With a heart so ready to give love and a body tired of the 3rd situationship in a row, you’re understandably exhausted.

But you’re not doomed.

You've just been working on the symptom instead of the source.

In this masterclass, we go to where the pattern actually started — not in your thoughts or in your journal. But in your identity in love, your nervous system, and the parts of you that learned to expect being desired but never claimed.

The problem has never been ‘dating culture’ or that you’re somehow a magnet for emotionally unavailable men. You haven’t ‘manifested wrong’ or been too impatient.

Here's what nobody tells you: understanding that you fear abandonment because your parents leave you at the grocery store when you were five doesn't break the pattern. You can know exactly why you keep attracting the same man with a different face — and still find yourself doing it again six months later.

The real problem lives somewhere your affirmations and therapy sessions haven't reached yet.

Becoming Love is the 90-minute masterclass that shows you what it actually takes to manifest a love that makes you feel chosen, whole and clear. Without burning yourself out with affirmations, trying to “heal” more, or swiping through the apps until you’re sick and tired of having your phone in your hand.

Here is what we cover in 
Becoming Love ...

Create a vision you actually believe

Most women have a vague idea of what they want — and a very specific memory of all the ways men have disappointed her in the past. In this section you'll get clear on what your heart actually desires — not what your fear thinks is realistic — and learn why claiming it fully is the first step to receiving it. Because you don’t have to lower your standards in order to be loved.

Understand the role you're actually playing

Learn to take radical responsibility for the patterns you’ve been re-creating — without blaming yourself. Realising that the repetition of 3-month-long situationships is in your hands is incredibly liberating — because if the pattern was created in you, it can be shifted in you. Those repetitive cycles aren’t going to shift by blaming dating culture or waiting until Prince Charming randomly walks into your life. This section shows you exactly where you're keeping yourself stuck — from the boundaries you're not holding, the crumbs you're settling for, and the attachment patterns that are running your love life without your permission.

Stop trying to change him - start becoming her

The woman who has the relationship you want isn't trying to get there. She's already living from the identity of being and feeling fully claimed and chosen. This section is about embodying the qualities, the self concept, the energy of the woman you want to be in relationship — not as a performance, but as a natural expression of who you already are underneath the fear.

Stop settling for less than what you want - commit to your desire in love even if it's not here yet

The pattern of going hot and cold on your own desire is keeping love at arm's length. This section addresses what it actually means to stay committed to your vision when reality isn't reflecting it back yet — and why the inconsistency you experience externally is almost always mirroring something so deep inside you, it sabotages the epic love you crave without you noticing it.

Surrender - and expand your capacity to receive

This isn't "just let go and it'll happen”. It’s not “trusting the process” and then getting frustrated waiting for love while putting your life on hold. True surrender comes from a recalibrated nervous system. This will enable you to stop unconsciously pushing love away every time it gets close. This section shows you how to expand your capacity so love doesn't just arrive… you get to receive it, enjoy it and maintain it without fear that you’ll be left the moment you allow yourself to relax.

YES, I WANT AN EPIC LOVE THAT FEELS SAFE IN MY BODY

Investment

 

One-time payment of GBP 20.

Sara J.

Lorena blew it out of the park again with this class! I learned so much about what I was getting right about the topic of love, and what I could see differently. And she did it with grace, compassion, and succinct explanations. I never once felt judged, only embraced! It’s a must if you’re looking to fully step into love 💖

Katie W.

Lorena’s love masterclass is a gem! It is packed full of wisdom and instruction (bring a notebook and pen!). I learned more in this class than I did working with other coaches one-on-one. Lorena is gifted at helping you embrace your current reality, heal old patterns, but also hold a strong vision of your desire and to not give up. It’s a really refreshing combination that feels both empowering and freeing!

 

Meet your mentor, Lorena Schuth. 

For most of my life, I felt unchosen — in life, but especially in love. I wasn’t unhappy — I had everything you could ask for. But my love life told a different story.

I was so familiar with the reality of being ‘the one who’s always single’.

I wanted love and assumed I’d meet someone. But the years went by with crushes and no commitment:

I experienced the pattern of the frustrating 3-month situationship that would end in ghosting or rejection. I settled for physical intimacy when I actually wanted more… because I no longer believed more was possible. I watched my friends get into relationships while I was trying my hardest not to show how jealous I actually was. I fell for someone and tried to ‘manifest’ them — unsuccessfully.

I was the woman who would obsess over a guy who would never choose her. I was the woman who would open his WhatsApp chat for the fifth time in a row because he hadn't replied for a few hours and I was spiralling. I'd delete and re-download the dating apps, switching from feeling hopeful to feeling defeated, without admitting to myself that disappointment was what I had expected all along.

I wasn’t insecure. If you saw me back then, you would have perceived me as confident — and that’s why I just couldn’t figure out why I kept dating the same man with a different face.

I tried everything to find the answer. I spent hours in therapy offices. I bought mini-courses about inner child healing. I repeated the same affirmation hundreds of times per day until I felt resentful because I had exhausted myself and still felt unchosen.

No amount of affirmations changed my beliefs, ‘choosing better men’ didn’t change the pattern, and loving myself harder didn’t make me feel chosen by anyone but myself.

One day, I'd had enough. Instead of reaching for another technique or modality, I started looking at what was actually happening underneath — in my body, in my subconscious, in the parts of me that had learned to expect rejection and brace for it before it even arrived. I worked with powerful mentors, went deep into somatic and embodiment work, and faced the parts of myself that kept calling in the experience of being desired-but-never-chosen. I retrained my nervous system to feel safety in relationships, instead of preparing for — and therefore re-creating — abandonment.

It was painful and uncomfortable. But it actually shifted something.

Slowly but surely, I became the woman for whom being chosen felt natural — instead of something I was waiting for, trying to believe, or terrified of losing.

Since then, I have trained extensively in trauma resolution, somatics, nervous system rewiring, spiritual philosophies, and subconscious reprogramming. I’ve been supporting women through Recreate Your Self® and self concept coaching for the past six years — women who came in exhausted from trying to ‘manifest’ love, and left as the version of themselves who simply expected to be claimed.

You get a taste of the RYS method in this masterclass!

Frequently Asked Questions

£20. Lifetime access. Yours immediately. 

BECOMING LOVE - REPLAY

Hosted by Lorena Schuth - Creator of Recreate Your SelfŽ

To receive the event access and information you will be subscribed to our mailing list. We won't spam and you can unsubscribe at anytime.